THEME: The Reign of God: Marriage and Christian Lifestyle

SUB-THEME: Factors for sustaining Christian Marriage 7 TOPIC: Friendship

TEXT: Eccle 4:8-12

AIMS:

i. to expound the biblical bases for friendship in Christian marriage and

ii. to discover some benefits of friendship in marriage and making your spouse the best friend.

INTRODUCTION

Friendship between couples means they are well versed in each other’s likes, dislikes, personality quirks, hopes and dreams. Friendship is a vital and core part of a healthy and strong marriage, and can help couples build a strong and lasting relationship. It can help couples navigate challenges, communicate well, and feel emotionally close. Developing friendship in marriage implies encouraging true partnership and receiving truth that are vital for long-term success. Faith and friendship are bedrock of healthy marriage, mutual respect, showing admiration and appreciation and sharing each other’s burdens.

STUDY GUIDE

1. In the context of the introduction, define friendship in Marriage and what it implies.

2. From our Bible passage (Eccl. 4:9-12), analyse the importance of friendship in Marriage.

3. Some benefits of friendship in Marriage (especially in Christian Marriage) include: emotional intimacy, respect, resilience, healthy communication, trust, knowing and caring for each other; discuss in the contexts of Eph 4:31-32; 5:21-22, 28-29; Col 3:12-13.

4. According to Prov 28:25, Eccl 5:10 and 1Tim 6:10, mention and explain some factors that can destroy friendship in a Christian home.

CONCLUSION: The beauty of having friendship in marriage is that it naturally bolsters communication, and trust that enhances continuous marital partnership.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT: In loneliness one is easily conquered but togetherness they verily conquer.

MEMORY VERSE: Eccl 4:12 “And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him. A threefold cord is not quickly broken”.